Recommended Reading

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Recommended Reading

Trusted books, articles, sermons and resources for biblical counsel, spiritual growth and wise study.

This page gathers resources that may help us think biblically about suffering, fear, temptation, assurance, family life, counselling, doctrine and the Christian walk. Some are gentle and accessible. Others are deeper works for slower study.

External links and editions

A note about sources

Many links below lead to external publishers, ministries, authors, or trusted public-domain libraries. Public-domain Puritan and Reformed works often link to Monergism. Newer books usually link to publisher, ministry, author, or established book information pages.

These links are offered for reading and study. I am not responsible for the content, availability, prices, cookies, privacy policies, or later changes on external websites. For quotation in published work, please verify wording from a reliable printed or scanned edition.

How to use this page

Choose the right kind of reading for the season you are in

Reading lists can easily overwhelm us. These simple categories are intended to help us choose what is suitable, rather than merely what is impressive.

Start here

Gentle, accessible books and talks for weary readers, anxious souls, new believers, or those who need comfort before deeper study.

Use with care

Some subjects, including abuse, eating disorders, crisis, severe depression and trauma, may need medical, safeguarding, pastoral or specialist support alongside reading.

Browse by theme

Recommended books, sermons and resources

Each resource includes a suggested use and a reading level. These are simple guides, not rigid categories.

Fear, anxiety, contentment and assurance

For anxious hearts, troubled consciences, fear of the future, assurance of salvation, and learning to rest under God’s providence.

The Mystery of Providence

John Flavel

Best for: learning to trace God’s wise hand through ordinary life, suffering and uncertainty.

Level: Moderate
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The Rare Jewel of Christian Contentment

Jeremiah Burroughs

Best for: restlessness, disappointment, envy, murmuring and learning contentment in Christ.

Level: Moderate
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All Things for Good

Thomas Watson

Best for: Romans 8:28, affliction, assurance, providence and comfort under God’s fatherly care.

Level: Moderate
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The Art of Divine Contentment

Thomas Watson

Best for: cultivating a quiet heart when providence feels hard, slow or disappointing.

Level: Moderate
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Anxious for Nothing

John MacArthur

Best for: a direct biblical approach to worry, anxiety and the cares of the soul.

Level: Gentle
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The Assurance of Salvation

R.C. Sproul

Best for: careful teaching on true assurance, false assurance, holiness and the work of Christ.

Level: Moderate
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Knowing and Growing in Assurance of Faith

Joel R. Beeke

Best for: believers caught between presumption and fear, seeking a biblical doctrine of assurance.

Level: Moderate
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Gospel Assurance and Warnings

Paul Washer

Best for: serious study of true conversion, empty profession, gospel warnings and biblical assurance.

Level: Deep
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Suffering, grief, chronic pain and weakness

For sorrow, chronic illness, pain, disability, discouragement and the deep questions that arise when life hurts.

Help! I’m in Pain

Deborah Smith

Best for: a short, practical and biblical booklet for chronic or persistent pain.

Level: Gentle
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A Place of Healing

Joni Eareckson Tada

Best for: wrestling honestly with healing, pain, suffering and hope.

Level: Gentle
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The Bruised Reed

Richard Sibbes

Best for: bruised, weak, discouraged and tender-conscienced believers.

Level: Gentle
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Suffering: Gospel Hope When Life Doesn’t Make Sense

Paul David Tripp

Best for: gospel hope when trials, illness, loss or confusion shake our expectations.

Level: Moderate
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God’s Grace in Your Suffering

David Powlison

Best for: seeing how God’s grace enters our particular suffering, not only suffering in general.

Level: Gentle
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When God Weeps

Joni Eareckson Tada and Steve Estes

Best for: thinking carefully about suffering, sovereignty, grief and the compassion of God.

Level: Moderate
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Addiction, anger, eating disorders, feelings and emotions

For habits, cravings, anger, emotional confusion, eating disorders and the wise care of body and soul.

Addictions: A Banquet in the Grave

Edward T. Welch

Best for: a biblical understanding of addiction, worship, desire and hope in the gospel.

Level: Moderate
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Good and Angry

David Powlison

Best for: anger, irritation, complaining, bitterness and learning a redemptive response to wrong.

Level: Moderate
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Feelings and Faith

Brian S. Borgman

Best for: understanding emotions, affections, joy, anger, fear, depression and worship biblically.

Level: Moderate
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Life Hurts

Dr Elizabeth McNaught

Best for: a personal and medically informed Christian testimony through anorexia and recovery.

Level: Use with care
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8 Keys to Recovery from an Eating Disorder

Carolyn Costin and Gwen Schubert Grabb

Best for: practical recovery insights from clinical and lived experience, read with biblical discernment.

Level: Use with care
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A New Name

Emma Scrivener

Best for: a Christian testimony of anorexia, control, shame, grace and hope in Christ.

Level: Use with care
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Marriage, family life and domestic abuse

For marriage enrichment, long-term faithfulness, communication, and careful help where abuse or coercive control is present.

Called to Peace

Joy Forrest

Best for: understanding domestic abuse, safety, healing and biblical care for those who are harmed.

Level: Use with care
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Two Becoming One

Don and Sally Meredith, Roland and Tammy Martinez

Best for: marriage enrichment, communication, intimacy and practical biblical marriage principles.

Level: Gentle
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We Above Me

Eric and Cheri Winterton

Best for: thinking through love, needs and unity in marriage, with discernment and Scripture open.

Level: Gentle
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I Still Do

Dave Harvey

Best for: strengthening marriage through life’s defining moments, especially beyond the early years.

Level: Gentle
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Spiritual warfare, temptation and the Christian walk

For temptation, Satan’s devices, Ephesians 6, holiness, Christian pilgrimage, conversion and perseverance.

Precious Remedies Against Satan’s Devices

Thomas Brooks

Best for: recognising temptation, accusation, discouragement and subtle spiritual snares.

Level: Moderate
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Ephesians 6 Sermon Series

Dr Martyn Lloyd-Jones

Best for: deep preaching on the armour of God, assurance, accusation and standing in Christ.

Level: Deep
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Fighting Satan

Joel R. Beeke

Best for: knowing Satan’s weaknesses, strategies and defeat through Christ.

Level: Moderate
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The Pilgrim’s Progress

John Bunyan

Best for: the Christian journey, temptation, perseverance, assurance and pilgrimage.

Level: Gentle
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A Treatise of the Fear of God

John Bunyan

Best for: understanding holy fear, reverence, obedience and the difference between slavish and filial fear.

Level: Moderate
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The Gospel Call and True Conversion

Paul Washer

Best for: a serious treatment of repentance, faith, conversion and the gospel call.

Level: Deep
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Doctrine, confessions and Christian living

For systematic theology, Reformed doctrine, confessional standards, apologetics, godliness and Christian love.

Foundations

R.C. Sproul

Best for: an accessible overview of the major doctrines of Scripture.

Level: Moderate
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Everyone’s a Theologian

R.C. Sproul

Best for: a clear introduction to theology for ordinary believers.

Level: Gentle
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The Sovereignty of God

A.W. Pink

Best for: studying God’s rule, providence, salvation and human responsibility.

Level: Deep
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The Attributes of God

A.W. Pink

Best for: meditating on God’s character, holiness, sovereignty, faithfulness and goodness.

Level: Moderate
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Truths We Confess

R.C. Sproul

Best for: a line-by-line exposition of the Westminster Confession of Faith.

Level: Deep
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1689 London Baptist Confession and Baptist Catechism

Historic Baptist confession and catechism

Best for: confessional Baptist doctrine and structured theological study.

Level: Deep
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Westminster Standards

Historic Reformed standards

Best for: studying the Westminster Confession and catechisms with care.

Level: Deep
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Defending Your Faith

R.C. Sproul

Best for: classical apologetics, reason, Christian witness and answering objections.

Level: Moderate
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Sermon on the Mount

Sinclair B. Ferguson

Best for: Christian character, kingdom life, law, grace, prayer and anxiety.

Level: Moderate
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The Great Gain of Godliness

Thomas Watson

Best for: holiness, godliness, spiritual profit and practical Puritan application.

Level: Moderate
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Charity and Its Fruits

Jonathan Edwards

Best for: studying Christian love, 1 Corinthians 13 and the fruit of true grace.

Level: Deep
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Biblical counselling and deeper study

For those counselling, discipling, supervising, training, or studying how Scripture ministers to the whole person.

A Theology of Biblical Counseling

Heath Lambert

Best for: the theological foundations of biblical counselling ministry.

Level: Deep
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Scripture and Counseling

Bob Kellemen and Jeff Forrey

Best for: confidence in Scripture’s sufficiency and wise use in personal ministry.

Level: Deep
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Biblical Counseling and the Church

Bob Kellemen and Kevin Carson

Best for: developing a church culture of one-another ministry and biblical care.

Level: Deep
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The Christian Counselor’s Manual

Jay E. Adams

Best for: a classic and substantial reference work in nouthetic counselling.

Level: Deep
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How to Help People Change

Jay E. Adams

Best for: thinking through a structured biblical process of change.

Level: Deep
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Biblical Counseling Coalition

Articles, books and resources

Best for: articles, book reviews, resources and wider biblical counselling discussion.

Level: Varies
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Right Thinking in a World Gone Wrong

John MacArthur and Grace Community Church leadership

Best for: thinking biblically about cultural questions and contemporary moral confusion.

Level: Moderate
Open resource

Sermons and audio teaching

Helpful places to search for Reformed preaching, lectures and biblical teaching.

MLJ Trust

Dr Martyn Lloyd-Jones

Best for: substantial expository preaching, including Ephesians, Romans and the Sermon on the Mount.

Level: Varies
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Ligonier Teaching Series

R.C. Sproul, Sinclair Ferguson and others

Best for: structured teaching on doctrine, apologetics, Christian living and Scripture.

Level: Varies
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SermonAudio

Various preachers

Best for: searching sermons by preacher, passage, topic or church.

Level: Varies
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Monergism

Puritan and Reformed library

Best for: free Puritan, Reformed, doctrinal and biblical-theological resources.

Level: Varies
Open resource

Care and discernment note

Reading is helpful, but some burdens need more than a book

These resources are offered for biblical encouragement, study and wise reflection. They are not an emergency service and are not a substitute for medical care, safeguarding help, crisis support, pastoral oversight, or appropriate specialist help where these are needed.

This is especially important with domestic abuse, coercive control, eating disorders, self-harm, suicidal thoughts, severe depression, trauma, psychosis, addiction, risk to children or vulnerable adults, and any immediate danger. In such cases, seek appropriate help promptly.

Quotation and edition note

Please verify quotations before using them in published work

Online editions, publisher pages and public-domain libraries are helpful for reading and discovery, but quotations should be checked carefully before use in books, articles, teaching notes or footnotes. This is especially important with Puritan works, because spelling, punctuation, abridgement and modernisation may vary.

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“Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.”

Psalm 119:105

May these resources help us read wisely, test all things by the Word of God, and walk forward with Christ as our light.